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Using our national games as platform for positive actions

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Jimmy MacDonagh steers the Galway Hooker, "An Mhaighdean Mhara" which is being closely pursued by the "Macdara" during the recent Féile Inis Mór regatta. Pic: Seán Ó Mainnín

A Different View with Dave O’Connell

It is apparently an accepted reality that, when you say or do something that knocks a person’s self-esteem, it takes twenty positive actions to get them back to the level you toppled them from.

At least it was a reference point used by the President of the GAA, Liam O’Neill, last week when he spoke about bullying, harassment and self-esteem on a visit to Galway.

The Laois man was launched a fantastic fundraiser in aid of Pieta House – 100,000 Steps for Cormac will be a celebration, both of the late Cormac Connolly and all that is good about the GAA, as well as a major boost for the suicide awareness charity.

And it was because of the work being done by Pieta House – he also referenced the Samaritans because of a link-up with Croke Park on a mental health and wellbeing programme – that Mr O’Neill spoke of the need to protect our children.

And he didn’t mean from sexual or physical abuse – although he acknowledged the depths of that problem throughout our history – but this was more about building them up instead of knocking them down.

Anyone who has children who play sport, or who has attended a juvenile match in any sporting code, will know what he is talking about when he refers to the shouting and abuse directed at small children as they do their best on the field of play.

It wouldn’t be tolerated in any other aspect of life; if you shouted at a child on the street in the way that some parents shout at them on a football pitch, you’d quite possibly be arrested and charged.

So seriously does the GAA take this problem that the Association’s President said they were considering a proposal to play all matches at U6 and U8 level in complete silence.

So if parents or other adults cannot learn to behave themselves on the sideline, the organisation with responsibility for our national games will do it for them.

It’s a revolutionary proposal but one that, if it comes to pass, could be taken on board by every sporting body in the world.

Because this is not exclusively a GAA problem by any means – and this sort of criticism and abuse does nothing other than to dent a child’s confidence, often to a point where they give up a sport they love altogether.

There’s nothing wrong with shouting encouragement from the sideline and with offering positive observations after it’s all over – even a shoulder to cry on if it does have to end in tears.

But these children will have to take criticism for long enough in later life; they don’t need to be lambasted at such a vulnerable age before they’ve matured enough to see things in proper perspective.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

 

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Betting on the thrill of the chase can come at a cost

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Dave O'Connell
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I’ve never understood betting but, just as I’ve never understood astrophysics either, I’ve plenty of time for those who do. Just because I don’t or can’t do it doesn’t make it an unusual pursuit.

But betting to me was always just a few quid on a fancied horse or backing your county to win the All-Ireland or your favourite football team to win the Premiership.

You might be a proud new parent who believes that the new arrival will one day go on to play for Ireland or Galway – and unless you’re perhaps Joe Canning, you will easily find a bookie who will lay you odds of 500/1 that it will never happen.

Nearly two decades ago now, Rory McIlroy’s dad Gerry placed a £200 bet on his 15-year-old son winning a Major – and ten years later, he walked away with a £100,000 windfall when Rory won the British Open at Hoylake in 2014.

In 2006, the family of Chris Kirkland won close to £10,000 when the then-Liverpool goalkeeper played for England in a friendly against Greece. Twelve years earlier, Kirkland’s father Eddie had placed a bet, as part of a syndicate, that his son would win an England cap before turning 30.

Perhaps even more optimistically, the grandfather of Fulham winger and former Liverpool star Harry Wilson pocketed £125,000 after placing a bet that his then-infant grandson would go on to play for Wales – which he duly did well before he’d left his teens.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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Caught by online fraudsters – and rescued by the bank

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Somewhere in a supermarket in Australia last week, a person or persons spent €57.88 of my money on food or drink and charged it to my Visa card. Hours later they then repeated the exercise at another branch of Coles, the Melbourne-based multiple – but then their mini-spree came to a shuddering halt.

In truth perhaps, they probably didn’t leave home at all; they may not even have been anywhere near Australia, instead carrying out their shopping online around midday local time – and again for around the same amount an hour or two later.

But then the fraud department of Allied Irish Banks put a halt to their gallop and during the wee small hours inquired if I had somehow made it from conducting an evening online transaction in Galway to buying things from a supermarket in Melbourne, in the process inadvertently breaking the sound barrier while I slept.

And when I replied that indeed I had not, my Visa card was shut down and the prospects of the intrepid Australians buying some serious kit from my pocket disappeared quicker than snow on the outback.

Not alone that but AIB refunded the money these people had spent without my knowledge, allowed me to take a few bob out of the bank without a card – but with ID – and then sent on a brand new card this week.

The embarrassing part was having to confirm that online purchases in the run-up to the Aussie shopping spree were legit; it’s like having a list of misdemeanours read out in court.

There was nothing accusatory in the tone of the nice woman from the bank, who merely inquired if indeed it was me who had gone twice to Mace the previous day; if I’d also bought an album online and paid a monthly subscription for a digital newspaper.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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What your taste in music says about your own state of mind

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As Elton John once said, sad songs say so much. But now it turns out so do Adele songs or classics by the Beatles – because surprise, surprise, the music you listen to reflects your state of mind.

That’s what a group of psychologists in Toronto spent their time discovering recently – a reality most of us could have told them for free.

The psychologists divided people into four groups with different approaches to relationships – the rejection-feeling ‘anxious’’ group; the negative and cold ‘avoidant group; the confident ‘secure’ group, and a mixed group.

The boffins then assessed the lyrics to 7,000 different songs based on their variously secure, anxious, or avoidant content, then asked a test group to pick out their favourite tracks.

And they came up with the bleedin’ obvious – song lyrics are a window into your state of mind; they discovered that people who are insecure in their relationship listen to a lot of Adele. Perhaps because you may remember she had her biggest hit, Someone Like You, about a break-up.

Other songs that inspire strong feelings, often sadness, include Joni Mitchell’s Blue; Bill Withers’ Ain’t No Sunshine; Neil Young’s Philadelphia, and Ray Charles’ Georgia on My Mind – just in case you’re looking to take it down a notch this New Year.

On the other hand, those who prefer the Beatles’ upbeat Love Me Do are more than likely to be very secure in their relationships, according to the University of Toronto study.

And just for the record, here are some of the songs for happy people, who are secure in themselves and in their loved ones around them.

At Last by Etta James – which sounds more like entrapment than true love, as does I Got You Babe by Sonny & Cher – and Wouldn’t it be Nice by the Beach Boys, not to mention Whitney Houston’s 1999 hit I Will Always Love You, which is actually a Dolly Parton song from the early 1970’s. It’s just that Dolly doesn’t give off that same sense of security.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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