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Using our national games as platform for positive actions

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Jimmy MacDonagh steers the Galway Hooker, "An Mhaighdean Mhara" which is being closely pursued by the "Macdara" during the recent Féile Inis Mór regatta. Pic: Seán Ó Mainnín

A Different View with Dave O’Connell

It is apparently an accepted reality that, when you say or do something that knocks a person’s self-esteem, it takes twenty positive actions to get them back to the level you toppled them from.

At least it was a reference point used by the President of the GAA, Liam O’Neill, last week when he spoke about bullying, harassment and self-esteem on a visit to Galway.

The Laois man was launched a fantastic fundraiser in aid of Pieta House – 100,000 Steps for Cormac will be a celebration, both of the late Cormac Connolly and all that is good about the GAA, as well as a major boost for the suicide awareness charity.

And it was because of the work being done by Pieta House – he also referenced the Samaritans because of a link-up with Croke Park on a mental health and wellbeing programme – that Mr O’Neill spoke of the need to protect our children.

And he didn’t mean from sexual or physical abuse – although he acknowledged the depths of that problem throughout our history – but this was more about building them up instead of knocking them down.

Anyone who has children who play sport, or who has attended a juvenile match in any sporting code, will know what he is talking about when he refers to the shouting and abuse directed at small children as they do their best on the field of play.

It wouldn’t be tolerated in any other aspect of life; if you shouted at a child on the street in the way that some parents shout at them on a football pitch, you’d quite possibly be arrested and charged.

So seriously does the GAA take this problem that the Association’s President said they were considering a proposal to play all matches at U6 and U8 level in complete silence.

So if parents or other adults cannot learn to behave themselves on the sideline, the organisation with responsibility for our national games will do it for them.

It’s a revolutionary proposal but one that, if it comes to pass, could be taken on board by every sporting body in the world.

Because this is not exclusively a GAA problem by any means – and this sort of criticism and abuse does nothing other than to dent a child’s confidence, often to a point where they give up a sport they love altogether.

There’s nothing wrong with shouting encouragement from the sideline and with offering positive observations after it’s all over – even a shoulder to cry on if it does have to end in tears.

But these children will have to take criticism for long enough in later life; they don’t need to be lambasted at such a vulnerable age before they’ve matured enough to see things in proper perspective.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

 

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Fall in home ownership leaves renters with uncertain future

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Dave O'Connell

A Different View with Dave O’Connell

Life used to be simple, if predictable; you went to school, got a job – or first did a degree to get a job – bought a house, had a family, paid off the mortgage over 20 years, and accumulated a small nest egg to allow for a fairly comfortable retirement.

Now you’re likely to be paying off your mortgage into those golden years – and that’s if you’re one of the lucky ones. Because you might also be one those who never quite managed to buy, still paying exorbitant rent on a fraction of your former income.

And yet when you read about the rental crisis, it’s just about the here and now – when the real nuclear explosion won’t blow until Generation Rent become pensioners.

But they manage it in other countries, you say – and they do. Because they have rents that are fixed for a lifetime (in some cases even beyond that, so that a family can stay in their home for another generation) and they can’t be evicted just because there’s more to be made as an Airbnb.

Simple economics show that, if your rent is a couple of grand a month and your pension is a fifth or a quarter of your former salary, you won’t be able to keep up the monthly payments.

And then what happens?

Will pensioner tenants be turfed out, forced to live on the streets – or to huddle down in the spare room of their children’s rented accommodation?

If people buy homes now – if they can afford to – it’s already likely to be ten or more years later than their parents did.

And given the more transitory nature of employment these days, they may also move home more than once – unlike the vast majority of their parents, who bought their home after they got married and stayed there for the rest of their lives.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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Things we used to do – and habits we never had before

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One of the realities of getting older is that there are things we used to be able to do that we can’t do now – and things we do now that we never used to do before.

We used to know phone numbers by heart; we used to be able to do basic addition, subtraction, division and multiplication in our heads; we used to tell the time by looking at the big hand and the little hand on a clock.

And if we had a watch it told us the time or if it was very posh, it also told us the date – although very often only if you remembered to push it forward when the month didn’t have 31 days in it.

Now your watch will tell you how many steps you’ve taken in the last 24 hours, what your heart rate is and if there are any emails in your in-box.

We had records or CDs or cassette tapes to store our favourite music; sometimes we still do, but the notion that we could have every song ever recorded on a telephone that wasn’t even plugged into the wall would have been too much to even contemplate.

We went to call boxes to ring home, if we could find one with a phone that wasn’t pulled off its axis – and we kept a supply of two-pence pieces because you needed a pair of them to make the call.

We used to be able to play on a quieter road, even if we had to stop the game and move aside for the occasional car; we used to write letters and wait a week for a reply.

Lego came in a big packet with just a random collection of different sized plastic bricks – and from that you made a house or a car.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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Flying to the moon – because billionaires go the extra mile

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There was a story told of a rich Irish businessman who found a way to demonstrate the size of his wealth – and it may be apocryphal, and therefore defamatory, so we won’t mention the billionaire by name.

Suffice to say that said billionaire was generous to a fault when it came to entertaining his friends, always treating them to the finest of food and the best wine – only he restricted his guess to the second-best bottles of wine.

Because he, and he alone, had the dearest one. And he would encourage the wine waiter to make no secret of that fact.

So even if the rest of the table were enjoying a €5,000 bottle of something from before World War II, our friend would top that with one of the ones fashioned out of water by Jesus at the wedding feast in Cana.

It was just to demonstrate that, even in the world of the mega-rich, there was still a line between the haves and those who have even more of it.

Two other wealthy Irishmen, Tony O’Reilly and Denis O’Brien – neither of whom was involved in the wine story – once met to try and sort out their differences over Independent Newspapers.

But according to Matt Cooper’s brilliant biography of O’Reilly, it didn’t get off to the best of starts – because Denis accused Tony of deliberately offering him a chair that was lower down than his host’s . . . therefore putting him at a disadvantage from the get-go.

In the end, chairs of equal height were found so that these titans of industry could look each other in the eye.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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