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Talk to actual friends – not imaginary, electronic ones

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Students from Scoil an Linbh Íosa, Galway experienced the musical magic of the Gamelan – a traditional Indonesian orchestral instrument – at the Galway Gamelan Experience at the Rowning Club where Mayor of Galway, Cllr Frank Fahy,tried his hand. Photo: Andrew Downes, xposure.

A Different View with Dave O’Connell

Imagine you’re having lunch with someone and, in the middle of their story – boring or riveting – you produced a book from your pocket and started to read it.

Half-listening and nodding in mock understanding, you’re actually flicking through the pages under the table and not really hearing a single word being said.

The truth is you simply wouldn’t even think of doing that – so why is it okay then to start googling on your phone?

We all do it; a study carried out last year by the US-based by the Pew Research Centre found that 89% of mobile phone owners admitted using their phones during the last social gathering they attended.

But they weren’t happy about it; 82% of adults felt that the way they used their phones in social settings hurt the conversation.

US Professor Sherry Turkle – author of Reclaiming Conversation: The Power of Talk in a Digital Age – referred to those findings in a recent piece on just this topic for the New York Times.

And she painted a bleak picture where, not alone were people trying to multi-task by listening and scrolling at the same time . . . they now weren’t even comfortable with themselves, without access to the phone.

The mobile has become a social crutch, because a generation has grown up with one stuck in their hand.

Prof Turkle said that college students felt they’ve perfected the ability to look somebody in the eye and type on their phones at the same time.

“They say it’s a skill they mastered in middle school when they wanted to text in class without getting caught. Now they use it when they want to be both with their friends and, as some put it, ‘elsewhere’,” she said.

And make no mistake – that’s a skill for sure; being in constant contact with the world is not necessarily a bad thing.

But there are consequences too; the phone, the computer, the internet, Skype, Facetime and a million other apps mean we can talk all the time, anytime, anywhere to someone – there’s nothing special about actually meeting up with them anymore.

But texting is not talking – half the time it’s not even English – and whatever else they do, iPhones don’t make eye contact; they don’t do empathy; they can’t offer consolation in terms of a gesture or a hug.

Emojies aren’t actual emotions – they’re just funny little cartoon faces that fill out a text when you can’t think of anything else to say.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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One person’s useless tat is another’s stuff of dreams

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The world is divided into two kinds of people; those who like to live in a world of clean, white lines and minimal clutter – and those of us who just love accumulating stuff.

Stuff covers a multitude, which – depending on your perspective – might be alternatively defined as either the souvenirs or detritus of your life.

Books, match programmes, concert ticket stubs, seashells, Dinky cars, beer mats…it’s all stuff that one person wants to treasure and the other, invariably, wants to throw straight out in the bin.

And it’s at the core of a fair percentage of domestic differences too – ‘it’s my stuff’; ‘don’t move my stuff’; ‘your stuff is taking over the house’ – because, for every hoarder, there’s an aspiring Marie Kondo who wants to take minimalism to new heights.

Attics are invariably full of stuff that hasn’t seen the light of day in years; old cardboard boxes of childhood toys, suitcases packed with dusty photo albums, boxes of video cassettes for which there is no longer a VCR; clothes that you didn’t want but also didn’t want to throw out – and it’s only a matter of time before they’re back in fashion and you’ll have shed the three stone it would take to close the zipper.

Overall, it’s the kind of stuff that you hoped you’d get back to and wallow in nostalgia, years after you consigned it to the darkest recesses of the eaves.

Those who abhor clutter have a different approach, working on the basis that – if you have stuff stored in a box and you don’t open that box for three years – you don’t need that stuff anymore.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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Sense of belonging that brings it all back home

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It was a chat with a ‘Galwegian in exile’ that brought it all home to me; although now domiciled in the capital for more years than he’d lived in the west, he was delighted to bring his Dublin-born daughter to the All-Ireland Football Final wearing her maroon jersey.

To be honest, she’d probably have gone to Croke Park dressed as Elsa from Frozen because it was just a day out – but Daddy couldn’t have been prouder if his eleven-year-old came on for Damien Comer with five minutes to go.

The sense of place is understandable when it comes to ourselves as born-and-bred Galwegians, because while you can change where you live as often as you like, even if you wanted to, you can never change where you’re from.

But trying to impose your own geographical heritage on the next generation is alternatively seen as understandable and a little selfish at the same time.

It’s a topic for discussion in our own house on occasion because while the two lads grew up in Galway, they were in fact born in Dublin – and if they want to pull my chain, all they have to do is remind of that fact.

My reply is a tired and stock one, to the effect that although Jesus was born in a stable, nobody ever suggested that made him a horse.

The more serious point is that you are shaped by your formative years rather than the maternity hospital of your arrival – and those years were spent in Galway.

Galway is their point of reference for sport and music and school friends and nights out and pubs and college – and almost everything else that really matters.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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Gaeltacht days – and a rite of passage to remember forever

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A scholarship to Irish College wasn’t so much a backhanded compliment as an inverted acknowledgement of your grasp of the language – in other words you got one because you were bordering on useless, or to put it more diplomatically you’d benefit more than the rest from a couple of weeks of immersion in your native tongue.

Only it then transpired that the experience of three weeks in the Gaeltacht taught you that going there had a small bit to do with learning Irish for sure – but a whole lot to do with growing up, or at least beginning that blossoming process.

And you would do all this in an atmosphere as alien to your small teenage self as free elections are to the people of Russia; céilís, cispheil, comhra agus craic – as well as an Irish language version of the Streets of London written and taught to us by Art Ó Dufaigh that still lives in the memory bank, even longer than Ralph McTell’s original.

The truth, when you get there, is the realisation that three weeks in the Gaeltacht is a little like a week at the Galway Races or the Rose of Tralee; just as the horses or the Roses are ostensibly the reason for going, they’re really just the hook to get you there.

And so it is that you go to the Gaeltacht to learn the language but you come home having learned so much more.

My Gaeltacht summer was at the tail end of the seventies with three weeks in Beal a’ Dangan and céilís in Nestor’s Hall, brought there in a bus by a young man called Máirtín Tom Sheáinín who would go on to enjoy a stellar career as a broadcaster – particularly presenting Comhrá – but was back then a knacky driver with a dream, traversing windy roads in pitch darkness.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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