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Room to roam – but not necessarily to improve

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Brian O'Donnell and Sinead Rooney

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Despite the fact that we grew up in what qualified by any standards as a fairly small house, we had two rooms in our home that we rarely went into.

We had a sitting room that might have failed to Descriptions Act because we rarely got to sit in it – and we had a rubbish room, which was perfectly named as it just stored all the stuff we no longer wanted or needed.

In the meantime, we crowded into the kitchen where there were two armchairs – not for children – and a kitchen table.

The actual kitchen was the size of two telephone boxes side by side, into which was packed a sink, shelving and cooker. The fridge didn’t fit so it stood in the hallway under the stairs.

So we – two adults and three children – effectively occupied one half of the available space in the downstairs of our family home. Because we needed one room for rubbish and the other in case anyone important should come to call.

The notion of a parlour is an age-old Irish tradition – and one, quite frankly, that makes absolutely no sense.

Why would you close off the best room in your house, elevating – or in reality, relegating – it to special occasions?

We effectively had a kitchen/diner before that became the buzz phrase for auctioneers everywhere – only ours was more henhouse than farmhouse because you couldn’t swing a cat in it.

We weren’t unique, but you wonder now where we all fitted – particularly in the summer time when relations descended on us as thought we lived in a small hotel.

Then the three bedrooms took on the appearance of a sardine can with various children topping and tailing to make sure there wasn’t an inch of space going spare in the bed.

When one turned, everyone turned – and you only hoped that the one on the outside hit the wall instead of the floor in this nocturnal equivalent of the Mexican wave.

It wasn’t just that we never felt deprived by all of this – because we weren’t – but I was passing our old house last week and I wondered what possessed my parents to further reduce out footprint in this compact semi-dee by closing off half of the downstairs to everyone but the very important or, in the case of the rubbish room, the not important at all.

Of course part of the reason it wasn’t a problem was that we were outdoors more often than inside.

We couldn’t sit around watching television all day, for two reasons – we weren’t allowed, but even if we were, RTE didn’t start until the evening, so you’d have been looking at the test card until your eyes went square.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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Caught by online fraudsters – and rescued by the bank

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Dave O'Connell

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Somewhere in a supermarket in Australia last week, a person or persons spent €57.88 of my money on food or drink and charged it to my Visa card. Hours later they then repeated the exercise at another branch of Coles, the Melbourne-based multiple – but then their mini-spree came to a shuddering halt.

In truth perhaps, they probably didn’t leave home at all; they may not even have been anywhere near Australia, instead carrying out their shopping online around midday local time – and again for around the same amount an hour or two later.

But then the fraud department of Allied Irish Banks put a halt to their gallop and during the wee small hours inquired if I had somehow made it from conducting an evening online transaction in Galway to buying things from a supermarket in Melbourne, in the process inadvertently breaking the sound barrier while I slept.

And when I replied that indeed I had not, my Visa card was shut down and the prospects of the intrepid Australians buying some serious kit from my pocket disappeared quicker than snow on the outback.

Not alone that but AIB refunded the money these people had spent without my knowledge, allowed me to take a few bob out of the bank without a card – but with ID – and then sent on a brand new card this week.

The embarrassing part was having to confirm that online purchases in the run-up to the Aussie shopping spree were legit; it’s like having a list of misdemeanours read out in court.

There was nothing accusatory in the tone of the nice woman from the bank, who merely inquired if indeed it was me who had gone twice to Mace the previous day; if I’d also bought an album online and paid a monthly subscription for a digital newspaper.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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What your taste in music says about your own state of mind

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As Elton John once said, sad songs say so much. But now it turns out so do Adele songs or classics by the Beatles – because surprise, surprise, the music you listen to reflects your state of mind.

That’s what a group of psychologists in Toronto spent their time discovering recently – a reality most of us could have told them for free.

The psychologists divided people into four groups with different approaches to relationships – the rejection-feeling ‘anxious’’ group; the negative and cold ‘avoidant group; the confident ‘secure’ group, and a mixed group.

The boffins then assessed the lyrics to 7,000 different songs based on their variously secure, anxious, or avoidant content, then asked a test group to pick out their favourite tracks.

And they came up with the bleedin’ obvious – song lyrics are a window into your state of mind; they discovered that people who are insecure in their relationship listen to a lot of Adele. Perhaps because you may remember she had her biggest hit, Someone Like You, about a break-up.

Other songs that inspire strong feelings, often sadness, include Joni Mitchell’s Blue; Bill Withers’ Ain’t No Sunshine; Neil Young’s Philadelphia, and Ray Charles’ Georgia on My Mind – just in case you’re looking to take it down a notch this New Year.

On the other hand, those who prefer the Beatles’ upbeat Love Me Do are more than likely to be very secure in their relationships, according to the University of Toronto study.

And just for the record, here are some of the songs for happy people, who are secure in themselves and in their loved ones around them.

At Last by Etta James – which sounds more like entrapment than true love, as does I Got You Babe by Sonny & Cher – and Wouldn’t it be Nice by the Beach Boys, not to mention Whitney Houston’s 1999 hit I Will Always Love You, which is actually a Dolly Parton song from the early 1970’s. It’s just that Dolly doesn’t give off that same sense of security.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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Viewing options ensure TV will never be the same again

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Dave O'Connell

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Much has been written about the downturn in newspaper sales, and in printed matter generally, on foot of the digital age – but it’s not just reading habits that are changing; because there is more than one generation now that no longer seeks its audio-visual enjoyment in the old-fashioned way.

In other words, the television sector is negotiating the same troubled waters with streaming services and free or subscription videos taking large chunks out of their traditional audience.

There was a time when the lap of luxury was a television in your bedroom, but there aren’t too many under 25s looking for that now – because everything they want to see, they can do it on their tablet or phone.

And while we were slaves to the TV guide, they demand to see their programme choices when it suits them – not when the channels think it’s best to put them out.

We might have come from a generation that waited until Sunday night to catch up with life in Leestown with the Riordans or in Wicklow with Dinny and Miley, but that ship has sailed.

If today’s consumer wants to watch the entire new box set of their favourite drama or detective series in one fell swoop, then that’s how it has to be.

You can see it already with the terrestrial stations across the water even if we cannot benefit from it here. The BBC iPlayer is at least one episode ahead of the channels themselves with any big drama, and very often the whole series of available in advance; it’s the same with ITV.

The RTÉ Player is more of a catch-up facility for programmes you’ve missed – apart from the odd straight-to-digital offering which wouldn’t really cut it on the actual schedule – but they will have to adapt to the British model if they’re to avoid sinking into a deeper abyss.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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