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Parents launch campaign to provide for brave Tomás

Enda Cunningham

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A dedicated and determined Galway couple are battling to raise funds to care for their five-year-old son, who was born prematurely and left with cerebral palsy following a series of harrowing complications at birth.

Little Tomás McLoughlin from Roscam lost his identical twin brother Seán at just 30 days of age, while he was left with no independent movement.

Because he has spastic quadriplegic cerebral palsy, he requires 24-hour care and requires extremely costly equipment to help live as independent a life as possible.

His parents Ann-Marie Duggan (from Renmore) and Shane McLoughlin (from Ballinasloe and originally Castlerea) have set up a campaign through Facebook called ‘Tomorrow for Tomás’, where they hope to raise funds for his care, as well as costly equipment such as a €20,000 powered wheelchair and a €3,500 car seat.

Ann-Marie had an uneventful pregnancy in 2009, until she discovered at 16 weeks that she was expecting identical twins – which made the pregnancy ‘high risk’. From then, the twins were struck with a series of traumatic events and complications.

On March 10, 2010 Ann-Marie wasn’t feeling well and went to University Hospital Galway to get checked out. She was advised that her waters had started to break, and was sent to the Coombe Hospital in Dublin, because there would be a full team in place there, while UHG had only one incubator available.

“It was just over 26 weeks, and we were told there was a 70% chance they wouldn’t survive. So we got the ambulance to the Coombe. I was admitted and after 11pm that night, I tried to turn in the bed and blood started flowing suddenly. The nurse got the Registrar, and heartbeats were being checked . . . it was like watching a scene from ‘ER’,” she says.

Her placenta had ruptured and she was later told that if she left Galway an hour later, she would have bled out and died.

Shane left the room at 11.15pm to let his wife get some rest – Seán was born at 11.23pm and Tomás at 11.25pm.

“My first interaction with them, they were in incubators – it was almost like they were in Ziplock sandwich bags. They were 2lb 3oz and 2lb 1oz,” he says. For Ann-Marie, the sound of the machines keeping her boys alive is something she will never forget.

Two days later, Tomás’ machine went “haywire” and he suffered extremely severe bleeding on both sides of the brain, which left him brain-damaged. A short time later, Seán also suffered a bleed, but it was not as severe as his younger brother’s.

“The doctor said Tomás would have cerebral palsy and will never walk or talk. We were broken-hearted. I ploughed on and was expressing milk to keep busy. I was racked with guilt, wondering if I did something wrong, if it was my fault.

“I was in the Coombe and saw babies being born 8lb and 9lbs who had to be weaned off drugs. I met a girl in the lift who was full-term and offered me a drink from her bottle of vodka. What did I do wrong?” she recalls.

Shane says: “It was all very surreal. But when you’re put in that situation, you just have to get on with it. There’s nothing else you can do.”

“Around 25/26 days, Tomás was having a bad night, then a good night,” says Ann-Marie. “We were told he was not going to survive, then by the following morning, he would have rallied again.

“On day 27, they were still in ICU and the nurse asked if I wanted to hold Seán in ‘kangaroo care’ (which allows skin-to-skin contact). I had half-an-hour holding him. We got to hold him twice each.

“At 4am, we got a call to say Seán was very, very sick, that he had NEC (Necrotising Enterocolitis, where the intestine perforates and allows waste products into the bloodstream).  That evening, we were half-way through a meal, even though we couldn’t eat, and were told they needed to move Seán to Crumlin Children’s Hospital.

“We were told that a perforation of the bowel could be operated on, but a full collapse couldn’t (the latter would inevitably result in death). We didn’t know which it was. Ten minutes in, the surgeon’s hand came out. I’ll never forget Shane’s roaring and crying. There was nothing they could do. He was kept on life support back in the Coombe and close family came up to see him.

“We wanted to wait until after midnight so he would be 30 days old [before switching off life support]. It’s a very cold thing. You’d never want anyone to go through it,” says Ann-Marie.

He was subsequently buried in Rinville, Oranmore, to be close to the sea. During the burial, the couple had to rush to Crumlin, where Tomás had had an operation for NEC due to a perforated bowel. His recovery was excruciatingly slow – he was being given 0.1ml of sterile water per day, gradually increasing to 0.5ml after a week.

Shane says: “That was a huge step for Tomás; waiting for small incremental changes meant so much psychologically to us.”

Despite doctors saying Tomás would never walk or talk, Ann-Marie was driven by a devoted determination, and researched early intervention.

She purchased black and white pictures and book, laminated them and placed them on the incubator where Tomás would see them. After 105 days, the couple were able to leave the Coombe with their son.

Fortunately, Ann-Marie’s brother Seán is a Redemptorist priest, and the Order was able to accommodate the couple at the Marianella Centre in Rathgar during their time in Dublin, for which they are eternally grateful.

“The Redemptorists couldn’t do enough for us, we had food each day, a bed, they even bought a secondhand couch, an armchair and TV. They did everything they could for us.

“Seán wasn’t even ordained a priest a year, so it really was a baptism of fire for him,” says Shane.

Despite the learning aids, the couple were concerned Tomás did not seem to be making good progress as he wasn’t meeting the milestones of movement, and wasn’t making huge sounds or talking.  But that concern was short-lived.

“Now he’s just gone five, he can read Ladybird books and is a real chatterbox. You can’t shut him up now! I really think the early intervention made a huge difference. The flash cards, the black and white pictures, the DVDs, everything. We’re over the moon with the progress he’s made,” says Ann-Marie.

It is a remarkable improvement for a premature baby who lost his twin, and had also been through Grade 3 and 4 bleeds to his brain; gut drains; ileostomy (opening the stomach wall to remove waste); lung drains; chronic lung disease and retinopathy of prematurity (abnormal development of the retina).

Now, Tomás has very good cognitive skills, but relatively no independent movement. The specialised equipment he requires is exceptionally difficult to get through the HSE and can cost tens of thousands of euro to buy privately. For example, a powered wheelchair – which he is currently being trained by Enable Ireland to use with his head – will cost around €20,000.

A car seat that would normally cost around €300 will cost €3,500, or it does not meet insurance company requirements.

“Everything adds up. Almost all of the items or equipment or technology are beyond affordability for us. You will always need specific care and that costs money,” says his father.

“It is just the two of us caring for him and we are both working. We get twelve hours [support] per week from Enable Ireland, but will always need specific care, and that costs money. He needs one-on-one attention.

“So we’ve set up a campaign called ‘Tomorrow for Tomás’ to raise funds for all he’s going to require into his future. I was slow to ask people for help, I suppose that’s a matter of pride. But everything adds up and we do need help,” adds Shane.

Tomás is also being trained to use an ‘Eye Gaze’ system at the moment – ahead of starting school in Merlin Park in September. This is a system which tracks the eyes and moves a mouse pointer around the computer screen, while blinking and staring also activates the communication system.

However, if the HSE will not fund the system, it will cost the family €4,500. Otherwise Tomás will not be able to access the curriculum in school.

“The HSE won’t give a definite answer on anything. It could be six months before an application goes through, then another six before the manufacturer comes through. It’s extremely frustrating. We could be waiting another two years for a powered wheelchair. The system is wrong,” says Shane.

The couple have two other boys, Matthew (3) and Luke (16 months), who were both born perfectly healthy.

■ You can find out more by visiting ‘Tomorrow for Tomás’ on Facebook. Donations to the Tomorrow for Tomás’ fund can be made to AIB, Newcastle Road, Galway. BIC. AIBKIE2D. IBAN: IE97AIBK93743621817041

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Galway City publican in heroic River Corrib rescue

Francis Farragher

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From this week’s Galway City Tribune – A city publican who last week helped save the life of a woman who had entered the waters of the Corrib off Wolfe Tone Bridge has made an appeal for young people to ‘look out for each other’.

Fergus McGinn, proprietor of McGinn’s Hop House in Woodquay, had been walking close to Jury’s Inn when he saw the young woman enter the river.

He then rushed to the riverbank on the Long Walk side of the bridge, jumped into the water, spoke to the woman and stayed with her until the emergency services arrived.

The incident occurred at about 3.45pm on Friday last, and a short time later the emergency services were on the scene to safely rescue the woman.

“She was lucky in that the river level was very low and she didn’t injure herself on the rocks and stones just under the water.”

He also appealed to the public to support in whatever they could the work being done by groups like the Claddagh Watch volunteers.
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Pubs face court – for serving booze on their doorsteps!

Dara Bradley

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From this week’s Galway City Tribune – Gardaí have warned city publicans that alcohol cannot be served outside their own premises – even in newly-created on-street spaces designated by Galway City Council as suitable for outdoor dining.

Councillor Mike Crowe (FF) said three Gardaí visited a number of city centre pubs on Thursday afternoon informing them that drinking outdoors was not allowed under licensing laws.

“They warned publicans and restaurants that the area outside their premises is not covered by the licence, and therefore under national legislation, they are breaking the law, because they are not entitled to sell alcohol in non-licensed areas.

“The operators were told that this was an official warning, and they will be back again in a few days and if it persisted, they [Gardaí] would have no option but to issue a charge and forward files to the Director of Public Prosecution. You could not make this up.

“All of the big operators were visited, and received an official warning, and they will be charged if they persist. According to the guards, they’re getting instructions from [Garda headquarters in] Phoenix Park,” he said.

The matter will be raised at a meeting of the Galway City Joint Policing Committee on Monday.
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Call for 50% affordable homes in new Galway City Council estates

Stephen Corrigan

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From this week’s Galway City Tribune – The next Galway City Development Plan should include a greater provision for affordable housing than that recommended by Government, a meeting of the City Council has heard.

Cllr Declan McDonnell (Ind) told the meeting that while it was the Government’s intention to introduce a stipulation that new estates should have 10% affordable housing, Galway should go further – building anything up to 50% affordable in developments that are led by the local authority.

The Affordable Housing Bill, which is currently working its way through the Oireachtas, proposes that all developments should have 10% affordable and 10% social housing as a condition of their approval.

Affordable housing schemes help lower-income households buy their own houses or apartments in new developments at significantly less than their open market value, while social housing is provided by local authorities and housing agencies to those who cannot afford their own accommodation.

The Council meeting, part of the pre-draft stage of forming the Development Plan to run from 2023 to 2029, was to examine the overarching strategies that will inform the draft plan to come before councillors by the end of the year and Cllr McDonnell said a more ambitious target for affordable housing was absolutely necessary.

“It must be included that at least 50% of housing must be affordable [in social housing developments],” he said.

This sentiment was echoed by Cllr Eddie Hoare (FG) who questioned if the City Council was ‘tied down’ by national guidelines, or if it could increase the minimum percentage of affordable housing required locally.
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