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A little advice from Cicero in charting the way ahead

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Cicero: Knew all the tricks to enjoy old age but never managed to get there himself.

Country Living with Francis Farragher

My little dissertation a couple of weeks back on the trials and tribulations of reaching a certain milestone in terms of advancing years, has inspired some anonymous contributor to send me a chapter from the Roman politician, writer and lawyer, Marcus Tullius Cicero.

Apparently in his day – 106 BC to 43 BC – he spoke many great words of wisdom about life and its passing, although as the saying goes he came to a bad end himself, when arch-enemy Mark Antony was involved in his assassination, before going on to bring his severed head and hands to the Roman Forum for public display.

In the guise of quoting Cato, Cicero devoted a chapter on the ins-and-outs of ‘pushing on’ but given his own premature demise – by my calculations approaching his early 50s – he didn’t have the opportunity to put his own advice into practice.

He pointed out that while everyone wanted to ‘attain an advanced age’, yet when it came to it most of them went on to complain about their senior status, warning of the folly of taking a gloomy view of the inevitable consequences of nature’s laws.

His basic principle about ‘being ready to go’ at the right time was delivered in pretty stark terms. “There had to be a time of withering, of readiness to fall, like the ripeness that comes to the fruits of the trees and of the earth. But a wise man will face this prospect with resignation, for resistance against nature is as pointless as the battles of the giants against the Gods.”

Cato aka Cicero, also observed that he had known many old men [women didn’t seem to get a mention too many times in those days] who had no complaints about their age ‘or its liberating release from physical pleasures’ and who were by no means treated with contempt by their associates. He said that if a man controlled himself and avoided bad temper and churlishness, then he can endure being old. “But if he is irritable and churlish, then any and every part of his life will seem to him tiresome.”

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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No choice in the matter as we all continue to dream on

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The stuff of dreams!

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I suppose that it really is something that shouldn’t bother me, but of late, I’ve made a very conscious decision to try and recall the content of dreams and, believe it or not, that is quite a skill in itself. Medical research indicates that we all dream, but most of the time, many of us forget within minutes what the dream was all about – maybe a good defence mechanism at times, especially so when our legs won’t move just as the ogre is about to pounce and quench our existence.

There I was the other morning in an outdoor setting with a range of mechanical implements which I had never seen before as I watched huge 20-tonne track machines falling off a conveyor belt onto the ground, but despite all that, it still remained in perfect condition.

As the dream continued to go and on, I asked several bystanders to wake me up as I had enough of this sideshow and wanted to return to my own world of reality, but my requests were completely ignored, and it took the 6.30 crackle from the phone alarm to rescue me.

Many decades on from my Leaving Cert exploits, modest enough in their own way, I still dream of sitting down in that lonely single examination desk in the old gym of Tuam CBS to be confronted by an English paper and realising that I hadn’t read even one of the poems, essays or plays that feature on the paper. Disturbing enough, even at this hour of my days.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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We live in a nice place but is the golden goose being killed?

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Heineken lager hit €8.90 a pint this Summer in the Temple Bar area of Dublin.

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We’re all familiar with the moral of the ‘killing the goose that lays the golden egg’ yarn and I’ve met a lot of people over the course of this Summer who pointed out to me the quite staggering cost of taking a holiday in Ireland.

Not alone were many hotels quoting outrageous prices for weekend breaks but they were also ‘laying it on’ with the charges for a pint and a pint and bit of grub.

I still find it hard to grasp how some restaurants can justify charging the bones of €40 for a steak when you can go the shelves of a SuperValu or Dunnes and pick up two juicy ribeyes or sirloins for around a tenner.

Whether hoteliers, restaurateurs or pubs realise it in Ireland, they are pricing themselves out of the market and especially the domestic one – particularly so for couples or groups who have the flexibility to travel abroad at off-peak times.

When big events like concerts or matches are taking place in Dublin the hotel quotes can slip into the astronomical bracket where the cost of a couple laying their heads down for a night can touch €600 to €700, and possibly a tad more.

A while back a little ring-around for an overnight stay close to Aviva where The Eagles concert was taking place unearthed price of €800 for a room. Needless to say that offer wasn’t taken up, prompting me to vow that ‘I’d rather reverse the car down from Dublin to Galway’ rather than fire away money in such a manner.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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Trying to find the time to slow down that clock

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AS one gets older the realisation dawns that time – and not material wealth – is our greatest asset but boy does that clock fairly freewheel around with each passing year.

Anytime a conversation switches around to the question of: “How long is such-and-such a person dead,” the guesstimate answers usually need to be doubled. Looking back on time makes us all realise how fast it is flying by.

I always contend that winning the lotto – as exciting and all as that would be – would not make any of us one second younger and in all probability would not add on one day to our eventual date with destiny.  In fact it might even know a few years off if we lost the rag and went mad with the lucre.

My late father used to have a favourite saying about wealth and money namely that while it wouldn’t necessarily bring you happiness in this world it would ‘help you to enjoy your misery’.

Even a couple of Sundays back while sitting in the Hogan Stand and witnessing Galway’s gallant attempt to win the All-Ireland title, it was kind of hard to credit that 21-years had passed since we were last in a senior final and 24-years since we ended a 32-year famine with the victory over Kildare in 1998.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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