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Tracey Ferguson’s labour of love brings romantics up to date

Judy Murphy

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Tracey Ferguson of Datings Little Helper: “I’ve been at weddings where people were getting married who met online. There’s no shame in it anymore,” she says.

Lifestyle – Judy Murphy meets Tracey Ferguson who helps singles to attract their dream partner

When Tracey Ferguson began using an online dating site on December 1 last year she immediately spotted a gap in the market where her talents could come into play.

Scrolling through the profiles of eligible and interesting men, the PR woman saw that most of these were pretty poorly written while the men’s photos were generally dire.

These men, many of them very attractive, were just not selling themselves well, she recalls.

As Tracey explored further she realised that this was also a problem for women using the site, so she came up with the bright idea of helping them.

The result is a new business, Datings Little Helper. For €50 Tracey will write or edit a person’s dating profile and advise on the best picture to accompany that profile. She will also advise those who are apprehensive about internet dating on the etiquette involved, what to do and how to avoid stalkers, or trolls.

Tracey’s own online romantic exploits have proven successful – she is now dating a professional man from Dublin. Their relationship is at an early stage, she says, but they are getting on well and most importantly they have that magic ingredient called chemistry.

Her enthusiasm, as we meet in the City’s House Hotel, on a busy Friday evening, is infectious. After of a couple of failed attempts to log onto the dating site, PlentyofFish, she succeeds – Friday evening is a particularly busy time for dating sites, she says.

PlentyofFish was the site Tracey chose last year when she eventually opted to try online dating after getting sick of more old-fashioned methods.

“It’s getting harder to put yourself out there,” she observes. “I’ve been at weddings where people were getting married who met online. There’s no shame in it anymore.”

Tracey had heard “lots of good things” about PlentyofFish, so she went online and created a profile, using her own photo but a different name – that’s normally what people do to ensure privacy, she explains. She immediately made 90 connections with different men and whittled those down to 10. Those were the ones she was happy to have phone conversations with. Out of the 10, she met five, all of them “lovely guys” she says, “but the spark was only there with one of them”.

That’s the amazing thing about online dating, she says. “Everyone is on there – all ages and sizes. I scanned the site with my girlfriends and all of us found different people attractive.”

But at the same time, it also dawned on Tracey that people needed help to market themselves.

“It’s like doing a CV, only this is your love CV. Sometimes people don’t what to say, and some of the photos were terrible.”

And, as with a job CV, first impressions matter, she says.

Some of the women on PlentyofFish who were separated or divorced and looking for new relationships were using their wedding photos as their profile pictures. That sounds difficult to believe, but as Tracey points out, these women wanted to post a photo where they looked good. Which is all very understandable, but if you are looking for a new partner, it’s better not to display a photo of you entering a failed marriage full of hope.

Meanwhile, some of the men had taken selfies in their bathroom or bedroom, where they were displaying naked torsos. Again, even with the best abs in the world, that’s not a good idea, she cautions. Similarly, for people who have children. It’s better not to include them in a profile pic. If you hit it off with somebody online, you can share all that information then, but for a profile, it’s over-sharing.

For more, read this week’s Galway City Tribune.

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A time when we learned once more that no man is an island

Francis Farragher

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Country singer Dolly Parton getting the jab: she sang about it and part-funded research on the vaccine.

Country Living with Francis Farragher

One of the oft-repeated pub jokes whenever the price drink was increased, whether it by Finance Ministers or publicans who felt that their margins were being whittled away, was that: “As long as it doesn’t get scarce, we’ll be happy enough.”

Who could have believed though in the first month or two of 2020 that this scenario would unfold (at least in pubs), where the opportunity to meet friends – and the odd ‘auld enemy’ too – over a couple of pints in the local bar would be snatched away from us?

We probably have learned to adapt to the reality of the pandemic and most of us will remember the real sense of fear and constriction that pervaded our every word and action early last year.

2020 was the universal version of ‘annus horribilis’ – the term made famous by Queen Elizabeth in 1992 when royal marriages started to collapse like cards houses in the breeze.

Being of rural stock, I loved the little video earlier this from country music icon, Dolly Parton, who adapted a verse of her famous Jolene song to mark her first shot of the Moderna vaccine (she also donated $1 million to its research) in a very sincere effort to try and encourage the general public to get inoculated.

“Vaccine, vaccine, vaccine, vaccine,

I’m begging of you not to hesitate,

Vaccine, vaccine, vaccine, vaccine,

Cause when you’re dead that’s a bit too late.”

A year before that, times were indeed very strange across Ireland and indeed the world. I remember on the Sunday night before St. Patrick’s Day when a sense of incredulity greeted the news in my own local that ‘a lot of the pubs in Galway city were closing down’. Surely, this couldn’t happen in our own little watering hole in the sticks, but it did.

Michael Karmen’s soundtrack from the Band of Brothers series – a wonder piece of music even to my untrained ear – will always remind me of that early Spring period of lockdown in 2020.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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Beat the leaks with reusable Nixx

Denise McNamara

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Ellie Loftus creator of Nixx.

Health, Beauty and Lifestyle with Denise McNamara

Ellie Loftus is one of those super high achievers who makes you feel totally inadequate.  A registered nurse with two postgraduates, one in paediatrics and the other in intensive care, she also has a Masters of Science in Health from UCD. She was Regional Child and Adolescent Health Development Officer for the HSE from 2003 to 2008.

The native of Crossmolina who lives in Barna then decided to go and get herself a law degree and was later called to the Bar. She is currently working as a barrister.

In her spare time, Ellie is a sprinter. She runs for Ireland as a master athlete and competed before lockdown at the European Athletics Championships.

And it wasn’t just running that she excelled at. She represented Ireland on the first female Irish Olympic bobsleigh team, taking part in four World Cups. She was sought out by Prince Albert of Monaco for a chat because she was from Mayo, the home of his beloved late mother Grace Kelly.

Now, at the age of 49, this dynamo has pivoted again, this time setting up her own business. She has drawn on her experience of working with adolescents in the HSE, being a mom of two girls and her years as an athlete.

Nixx.ie is a period and bladder leak range of underwear that could revolutionise sanitary care.

The underwear is reusable by throwing it in the washing machine and can be worn without a tampon or pad.

Each pair consists of four layers of specialised fabrics. Because they can be worn without sanitary products, they are a much more sustainable solution. The first sanitary pads invented are still in a landfill somewhere as they take between 500 and 800 years to decompose.

They also turn up everywhere you don’t want to see them. Sanitary products are the fifth most common item found on Europe’s beaches, more widespread than single-use coffee cups, cutlery or straws.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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Stepping out of time in Burren Lands

Judy Murphy

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Lifestyle – Sacred sites and traditional crafts and placenames are among the wonders that unfold on a walking tour of the Burren led by Anna Casey Donohue. It all takes place on the lowlands and hills of the family farm south of Kinvara, where her husband John is the seventh generation of his family to work the land. JUDY MURPHY goes on a voyage of discovery, led by this retired teacher of Irish and Geography.

Driving towards the Burren from the village of Kinvara, its majestic limestone mountains are a source of wonder, no matter how many times you see them. From a distance, they’re amazing. But it’s only when you get up close, you realise how this seemingly inhospitable landscape teems with wildlife and history.

That wealth of nature, heritage and also spirituality is what Anna Casey Donohue wants people to experience when they take to the hills behind her house on the Clare-Galway border. And there’s no doubt, once you go off the road and start walking towards a field known locally as Páirc na Liadhas, the outside world seems to melt away.

Páirc na Liadhas translates into English as ‘the Field of the Grey Habits’, Anna explains. Located across the hill from Oughtmama, which was an important monastic site in the early Middle Ages, and close to the 13th Century Corcomroe Abbey, this place is steeped in folk history, much of which has long passed into the mists of time. But previous generations remembered Páirc na Liadhas as an area which was home to an order of grey-robed nuns. And as we make the gentle ascent towards the field – a green oasis on the mountain’s lower slopes with hawthorn and hazel copses all around – Anna informs the small group of walkers that it contains the ruins of a convent, which, it’s believed, was connected to the monastic community of Corcomroe.

Anna, a retired secondary school teacher who runs Burren Explore, is a mine of knowledge when it comes to the Burren’s geography, folklore and placenames – and the joy she gets from sharing that knowledge is palpable.

She’s originally from Kilbeacanty in the foothills of the Sliabh Aughty Mountains on the other side of Gort and this farm on which we are walking was inherited by her husband Johnny,  the seventh generation of his family to work this land – doing so in line with the Burren Farming for Conservation Programme.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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