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How to ask the question that could save a life

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Paul Kelly

■ Ciaran Tierney discovers it is not harmful to bring up topic of suicide with a person having a tough time in their life.

It is probably the question none of us ever want to ask a friend, colleague, or family member. And yet, as a group of about 40 of us discovered at a Galway hotel last week, it is the exact question which can save a life.

“Are you suicidal?” For many of us, in the wake of an unprecedented number of tragedies in the city and county in recent weeks, it’s a question which hardly bears thinking about.

Console, the national suicide prevention and bereavement support charity, brought people from a wide variety of backgrounds and ages together at the Clayton Hotel. They had all registered for a three-hour course which each person in the room hoped would go some way towards changing their lives and those of the people around them.

There was a nervous, tense atmosphere in the room before the course started. Each person was present to learn and talk about an issue which has devastated families and communities in Galway city and county in recent weeks and months.

The timing of the course seemed all the more poignant given that at least five suicides were recorded in the county the previous weekend. A senior Garda based in Ballinasloe warned only last week that it is now the biggest threat facing communities across the West of Ireland – and that there needs to be change throughout our society to tackle the problem.

By 10pm, as the course concluded, the transformation in the room was amazing. People who had been silent and apprehensive at the start of the Question, Persuade, Refer (QPR) course were suddenly delighted to talk to strangers and share their hopes that they could make a difference to their communities, families, places of work, and sports clubs.

The idea behind the course, which was originally developed by Professor Paul Quinnett in the United States, is quite simple. It urges participants to look out for warning signs and then to ask a question which could save a life.

Paul Kelly, founder of Console, opened the course by talking about the death of his own 21-year old sister, Sharon, which prompted him to set up the organisation in 2002. Amid the pain and grief which followed his sister’s death, her family members kept asking themselves and each other why she had taken her own life.

Sharon was about to start a new life in Australia, and gave away her most valuable possessions, when she took the decision which devastated her family’s lives.

“We would have understood why if she had chronic depression. Her friends used to come and confide in her. I saw the impact which suicide had at first hand. We kept asking how we could have missed this. All of a sudden, I felt I did not know my younger sister,” said Paul.

For more, read this week’s Galway City Tribune.

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Bemoaning loss of innocence in a sport driven by big bucks

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Brazil dazzled the world of football in 1970 with their mix of pace, grace and sheer footballing class.

Country Living with Francis Farragher

I’m not big into trying to resolve the huge issues of the world like wars, climate change or attempting to dethrone the obnoxious Elon Musks of this world, primarily on the basis that my influence would be akin to a moth trying to stop a herd of charging elephants.

And, I suppose at this stage, I have to accept that it’s far too late to try and call a halt to the World Cup proceedings in Qatar but for the life of me, the event doesn’t even send a sliver of enthusiasm through my nervous system.

Maybe, it’s an old-fashioned streak that’s there inside of me, but the thought of watching World Cup matches in the run-up to Christmas just doesn’t seem right. Okay, so it will be about 30°C in the heart of the Qatar desert but watching a World Cup semi-final in the middle of the Christmas office party is just a stretch too far for me.

Alas, World Cup memories go back a long way with me to a late Sunday in July 1966 when as a ‘small boy’ I was given the job of ‘minding’ the house while the ‘rest of them’ saved a small field of hay a couple of miles away from the house.

Of course, at the time there wasn’t even a faint chance of a black-and-white TV in the house, while visits to any abode that might have a telly, were strictly confined to a Sunday with the stipulation that Galway footballers had to be involved.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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Artists in frame for MADRA Auction

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Colm O’Donnellan getting ready for the MADRA auction. PHOTO: JOE O' SHAUGHNESSY.

LIFESTYLE – Finding suitable homes for dogs that have been abandoned, neglected or abused is what drives the staff and volunteers of animal charity, MADRA. Its services are under strain currently, due to an increase in the number of animals being abandoned or given up for adoption, coupled with rising costs and staffing issues. MADRA’s founder Marina Fiddler tells JUDY MURPHY about its work and the importance of its annual arts auction.

Well-known city auctioneer Colm O’Donnellan will be in full flight this Saturday afternoon, using his mellifluous tones to best advantage as he encourages people to flash their cash and buy the goods he’s selling.

But instead of the bricks and mortar that are his normal fare, Colm will be auctioning paintings that local and national artists have donated to the Camus-based dog shelter MADRA – Mutts Anonymous Dog Rescue and Adoption. The event will be held at the PorterShed, in the city’s Market Street car-park, and will also be accessible online.

Nationally, those who have donated work for this year’s auction include Kevin Sharkey, Frank O’Sullivan, Paul Crozier, Pádraig McCaul, Jin Yong and Ausrine Kuze.

Here in Galway, Grace Cunningham, Joan Kilfeather, Elena Santos, Rachel Dubber and Aoife Dowd are among the artists who’ve contributed.

Unsurprisingly, many of the pieces have wildlife themes and sometimes these are quirky, as is the case with Lithuanian-born Ausrine Kuze – she and several others have donated more than one piece.

This annual auction is an important event for MADRA, serving as a fundraiser and also helping to raise its profile.

It’s been a busy year for the charity which works to rehouse dogs that have been abandoned, neglected or abused – and there’s no sign that there will be a let-up any time soon, says the group’s founder Marina Fiddler.

As we speak, she’s working to sort out a litter of pups that was left outside Galway Dog Pound. Rather than complaining about this, Marina observes that the person who abandoned those pups didn’t just dump them in the wilds for other animals to eat. By leaving them at the pound, the pups have been given some hope of a future. It’s just one of five litters that MADRA has taken charge of in the past three weeks.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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Galway In Days Gone By

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The construction of a new wheelchair-friendly footbridge by Galway Corporation over the Friar’s River Canal at Newtownsmith on October 20, 1998. It replaced the old temporary bridge that had become dangerous and could not take wheelchairs.

1922

Posting poor returns

Postal rates and telephone charges in Ireland are at the moment probably as high as they are in any country in the world, higher than they are in most.

The penny post has been restored in Great Britain, following the wage cut, which was introduced without any stoppage in the public service.

And the postal facilities in Ireland at the moment are probably worse than in any civilised state in the world. This is not altogether the fault of those who control the post office.

But, while much of this is due to conditions over which postal officials can have no control, a very considerable percentage of it is due to a badly run post office.

There is something very rotten in a service that loses a million a year, and yet gives the public only very indifferent results; for not merely are the Irish people paying abnormal postal and telegraph rates, but they are paying for the deficit in the form of taxation, so that their letters cost them much more than twopence.

For more, read this week’s Connacht Tribune.

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